hello..my name is samuel,now i will tell you about something special..hehe
This is a blog about miracle and the beautiful nature about NTT,one of many province in indonesia who can make you silent for a minute and don't want to leave from this blog...,there are many island with their unique in the each island in ntt,who make people from the other city,island and country come to ntt to see the miracle island.
hi guyz..this is my post blog..hikz2...,dont be sad,,because in my last posting blog i will tell you about something amazing in the nature..it is not about sea,mount,waterfall,village and the other but is about nature park in menipo island and it is a combination all of them..why it is so amazing?because it have vegetation type dry forest and savana,so it have many flora like lontar,asam,kesambi,and waru and in the forest sea you can find many sea pine.it also have many fauna like monkey,forest pig,pelikan bird,bangau,king shrimp,timor deer,and the other,kakaktua,and in the sea you can find crocodile,turtle...
not only that..you can enjoy white sand sea,savanna,turtle place,waterfall with seven level,and so many beautiful place and view..
because this place is a build stage,so you can just stay in a simple place and just can find a fastfood,and drink..
it is my last blog,hope you enjoy my blog and..dont forget to see that place...
byebye..
Each year, the government routinely NTT international fishing tournaments held in the strait which flanked the island of Rote and Timor island. Waters as far as 10 miles of shoreline Tablolong in West Kupang district, Kupang Regency was quite crowded fish migration path from the Timor Sea to the Sea Savu. According to schedule, the race lasted for three days from November 4-6. A total of 27 anglers from Indonesia, Japan, Germany and the United States who are members of nine teams, in contrast to the racecourse from the tourist beaches Tablolong at 05.00 pm and returned at 16.00 pm. Each team hosted a fisherman Tablolong
Participants who successfully obtain fish with the highest weight, entitled to first place that day. They fight over a total cash prize plus trophy Rp42.7 million NTT governor. This event is expected to attract foreign tourists visiting the beach and enjoy the panoramic NTT islands are charming and unspoiled pollution. Because of that, long ago, the government has been keen to hold a promotion. Began to publish a calendar of events through flyers, advertisements in mass media. Government's efforts is evident from the success of the tournament preparation is quite mature. The committee prepared a special rescue team stationed off the coast.
They are also equipped rescue equipment and radio communications at any time send a report to the ground if you have problems at sea. One of the rules must be observed that the participants are not allowed to dispose of trash littering the ocean. East coast of the island's southern tip presents a beautiful panorama of the beach and the beautiful underwater panorama. The beauty of the beach also dihiasai with trees, like trees that grow Centigi spread on the rocks. Unfortunately, the tree began to be threatened Centigi caused by ignorant hands that take the tree to be sold to the island of Java.
David Jones, for example, American participants admired the beauty of the underwater coral Beatrix within about 5 miles from the coast. David Beatrix reef dubbed as the 'supermarket fish' for all types of fish can be found at that location. Two other corals that are not less interesting is the coral reefs in and Tabui. In three reef fish species that are alive are contested in various fishing tournaments such as the type of Marlin, Alu, Alu, Wahui, pompano, Barracuda, Lemadang, and Tuna. So, no wonder some residents of Kupang lovers of marine tourism use motorboats for fishing in the area about a half hour from the mainland.
In addition visitors will also enjoy a variety of fish species in groups look like in a giant aquarium. However, the fishermen and anglers not fish using cyanide is a chemical that can intoxicate fish, but can kill small fish and damage the coral. Coral reefs in these waters is also prohibited to be taken. For that purpose, near the coast have displayed a sign saying 'sport fishing center Tablolong'.
The board was on display at the entrance to the beach so it can be seen from the sea. Therefore, you should not throw old food parcels to the sea. But if you want to attract the attention of the fish swim beside the boat, throw the food in the morning and you will see thousands of colorful fish scrambled for food.
Currently a Canadian man to build three units homestay in two hectares of land about one kilometer from residential areas. Dozens of ordinary citizens to stay in homestay Kupang is built on the beach. The rental price per night is different homestay for Rp 100 thousand foreign tourists per night plus three meals and local tourist Rp 50 thousand plus three meals.
In addition to the power grid is not available, homestay environment was quiet, especially at night only sounds breaking reef waves. In the morning when I hear the birds singing deeply felt isolated village life on the island of Timor. Not inferior to the scene in the late afternoon treat. When evening came, saw thousands of light emitted from the houses in the village and the island Semau Tablolong an unforgettable experience.
This location can be reached from the city of Kupang with cars and motorcycles to travel for an hour. The winding streets with houses that are still traditionally also a sensation of its own. Tablolong general population are descended from Rote island that brought the Dutch in colonial times.
Tablolong beach in the Western District of Kupang. Located 30 km from the capital city beach district with an area of ± 5 km. Specs appeal scenery, broad beaches of ± 3 km to the unique circumstances and the sandy beaches white with marine support activities that can be used for rowing competitions, traditional fishing, National and International. Recreational areas, can be used also for windsurfing activities as supported by the state of a calm sea.
Behind Tablolong sights are an area of 3 ha of woods inhabited by a species of forest monkeys and goats. These objects are behind the Tribes Cultural Village with the Head of Family Panaf 18 KK, the language is a mixture of languages Oekusi, Helong and Rote (the uniqueness of the Hamlet Panaf). Place of Interest Panaf a stone that looks like a nose jutting into the sea goat
Tourism has also Tablolong beach of white sand, crystal waters and great for recreation and sport. Tablolong elected as a fishing tournament held every year. Accessible by public and private transport. This tourist attraction has been addressed by means of, among others, Lopo, diner, walkways, toilets and children's games such as swings.
Is a beach Tablolong Tourism Object In Which There is Kupang, East Nusa Tenggara (West Timor). Location Located in the Coast Tablolong Mileage about 25 Km from Kupang direction. For most residents of Kupang, beach location, better known as Tablolong Areas To Fishing. Location of Beach Tablolong can explicitly says at the end of the island of Timor. Position Tablolong Beach directly opposite the island Semau Be More Profitable For All The Fish In Water For The Shelter Island Semau It If coming West season. This is the one who makes Coastal Region Tablolong It Rich Fish That Will Make Doing Race For Fishing Place.
Tablolong beach is a beach which is very beautiful and attractive. Clear water, clean and covered by a cloud of sunny blue.
Tablolong is one of the hidden jewels in East Nusa Tenggara Province.
white sand, dotted by dead coral rocks that have the color panel is unique and spectacular, the beach is one object Tablolong Kupang people's choice to fill the time off for recreation. The beach is visited by visitors on Saturday and Sunday, but it is not uncommon habya visitors coming to enjoy the sunset at the beach this mataharai.
If you are visiting the city of Kupang, do not miss to stop at the beach Tablolong ..
Tablolong beach is quite crowded fish migration path from the Timor Sea to the Sea Savu, NTT government therefore seeks to attract tourists by holding an annual event of international fishing tournaments.
In addition to Indonesia anglers, this event also attended foreign anglers from Japan, Germany and the United
Participants who successfully obtain fish with the highest weight, is entitled to occupy the first position to fight a total cash prize plus trophy Rp42.7 million NTT governor.
This event is expected to attract foreign tourists visiting the beach and enjoy the panoramic NTT islands are charming and unspoiled pollution.
In addition visitors will also enjoy a variety of fish species in groups look like in a giant aquarium. However, the fishermen and anglers not fish using cyanide is a chemical that can intoxicate fish, but can kill small fish and damage the coral karang.terumbu
Coral reefs in these waters is also prohibited to be taken. For that purpose, near the coast have displayed a sign saying 'sport fishing center Tablolong'.
The board was on display at the entrance to the beach so it can be seen from the sea. Therefore, you should not throw old food parcels to the sea.
But if you want to attract the attention of the fish swim beside the boat, throw the food in the morning and you will see thousands of colorful fish scrambled for food.
This location can be reached from the city of Kupang with cars and motorcycles to travel for an hour. The winding streets with houses that are still traditionally also a sensation of its own. Tablolong general population are descended from Rote island that brought the Dutch in colonial times. (Lik / nttprov)
Mengeruda hot spring is one of the flagship attractions Ngada district, hot water Mengeruda deserved the title as a tourist attraction which you should sambangi. Its natural scenery is also quite beautiful with temperatures cold enough for an altitude of 1200 meters above sea level.
This hot spring contains sulfur Mengeruda that can cure skin diseases and wounds. Because of its location just below the foot of the volcano Inelika (Menge). The heat generated could likely reach 30 sd 50 degrees celsius
This location is within about 1 hour from the city Bajawa or about 50 km from Riung to the south. To be able to get into this hot spring area, you simply pay the entrance fee of Rp 1,000, wisatan -/orang for domestic and Rp. 2500, -/orang for foreign tourists.
Hot water bathing places Soa Mengeruda In Hot Water Bath Place is located approximately 50 km SSW Riung. Hot water bathing places Mengeruda Located At 1000 masl altitude Less is More. Hot water bathing places Mengeruda Is One Of The Baths Natural Hot Water And The Government Ngada Oyek cite this as a hot water bath with adequate facilities. Hot water bathing places Mengeruda It Being On A Plain. Hot Springs Have It In Normal Condition Average Temperature 30 ° C. Up With a 40 ° Celsius. Again If It Is No Secret That Has Water Levels Above Average Sulfur It is miraculous medicine for the skin, eliminate fatigue efficacious in addition to We crease-Tired After All day.
The travelers going to the City of Bajawa, Whether It's Local Demands and domestic travelers. All day Bath No Rarely Choosing Residential Hot Water Baths Mengeruda, Till The Day of the afternoon was not until they went on to Bajawa City, The Other Is Not Capital Ngada. In the City Bajawa air is inversely proportional to the temperature of hot water bathing places Mengeruda. This is understandable because the City of High Surface Bajawa From Sea Level is about 1200 meters above sea level.
At first, hot water bathing places Mengeruda This Is Where The Farmers' Demands and Local Communities Around the Place Baths Bath Or Just Clean It Yourself After a long day at the Garden. Where the journey is then, by the Governments Ngada, Facilitated Properly With Complementary Building A Place Baths Commercial Facility With The Self-sufficient, with Leaving Permanent Natural Flowing water flow. Scented Hot Sulphur The Other Is Not Due to a volcanic activity which is under the Stomach Earth Ngada It, On-The Future is believed to Attract The number of tourists coming to this Ngada.
Hot water bathing places Mengeruda, Even When It's Not As Natural Park Area 17 Riung Island Travelers Who So Much Interest, But In the future, I'll trip is a Local Government Asset Ngada The Becoming One Of The Reliable Source of Revenue, which of course can be realized If Getting Serious In addition to handling infrastructure aspect Suggestions Other Infrastructure, Tourism Promotion In addition to factors equally important in hot water bathing places Introducing Mengeruda As One Destination Sites is interesting.
Mengeruda hot springs located in the village of Soa Piga District, 25 km to the north of the city Bajawa, 50 km from Riung to the south at an altitude of about 1000 meters above sea level.
Mengeruda hot spring is one of the hot water bath that arises naturally from the ground is flat with an average temperature of 30-0 degrees Celsius. Foreign tourists who entered free of charge Rp 2,500 per person. Domestic tourists Rp 1,000 per person.
The tourists who come to soak umumnnya there all day in a little water that contains sulfur. In the afternoon they went on the trip. Generally to Bajawa, the capital of the valve Ngada very cool because it lies at an altitude of 1200 meters above sea level. At first, the hot water bath pemandiang Mengeruda is natural for farmers in the vicinity who had tired of working all day in the fields.
Before coming home they submerge themselves in it so fresh. With the current cost of billions of dollars Mengeruda fence wall. Growing source of water surrounded by high walls as well, but the river channel is allowed to flow naturally. That's where the farmers and tourists soak. With the cost of not a few also built a swimming pool where the water flowed from the hot springs. But unused, rusty pool by sulfur and minerals so it looks like a buffalo wallow. Maybe once Ngada Government intends to make the spa, but what can not be realized.
From January to September, tourists visiting the Mengeruda only 200 people. Compare that with 2600 people visited Riung tourists. Swimming pool built redundant because of the foreign and domestic tourists and their farmers to choose a bath or soak yourself in hot water flowing river. Currently people in the hot springs skitar anxious or worried that one day the local government no longer allow the farmers go to the hot springs which become their own because it has a wall fence around the architectural Bali. Or they worry that the poor also have to pay entry to bathe in hot springs themselves. Because the management of the hot water directly managed by the hot water Pemda.Pemandian Mengeruda in Soa, located approximately 50 miles from Riung to the south at an altitude of about 1000 meters above sea level. Mengeruda hot spring is one of the hot water bath that arises naturally from the ground is flat with an average temperature of 30-0 degrees Celsius. Foreign tourists who entered free of charge Rp 2,500 per person. Domestic tourists Rp 1,000 per person.
The tourists who come to soak umumnnya there all day in a little water that contains sulfur. In the afternoon they went on the trip. Generally to Bajawa, the capital of the valve Ngada very cool because it lies at an altitude of 1200 meters above sea level. At first, the hot water bath pemandiang Mengeruda is natural for farmers in the vicinity who had tired of working all day in the fields.
Before coming home they submerge themselves in it so fresh. With the current cost of billions of dollars Mengeruda fence wall. Growing source of water surrounded by high walls as well, but the river channel is allowed to flow naturally. That's where the farmers and tourists soak. With the cost of not a few also built a swimming pool where the water flowed from the hot springs. But unused, rusty pool by sulfur and minerals so it looks like a buffalo wallow. Maybe once Ngada Government intends to make the spa, but what can not be realized.
From January to September, tourists visiting the Mengeruda only 200 people. Compare that with 2600 people visited Riung tourists. Swimming pool built redundant because of the foreign and domestic tourists and their farmers to choose a bath or soak yourself in hot water flowing river. Currently people in the hot springs skitar anxious or worried that one day the local government no longer allow the farmers go to the hot springs which become their own because it has a wall fence around the architectural Bali. Or they worry that the poor also have to pay entry to bathe in hot springs themselves. Because the management of the hot water directly managed by the government.
hello Guys..now we go to the cave which you can find in NTT..this is a rare cave in the world named liang bua cave,,so..don't forget to read this,because this is a one of many quest in indonesia,and its still closet in the world..but it is very famous in site of archeolog research in the world which find fosil of the small human..let's enjoy this..
Liang Bua is a limestone cave on the hill in Manggarai, Flores. Local people are very familiar with this cave because of their large size (length 50 meters, 40 meters width, and height 25 meters). Due to the large size of this cave once used as a place of worship and schools.
Liang Bua has been famous around the world after the discovery of an ancient human skull the size of short-called Homo floresiensis. Fosli was found at a depth of 6 meters.Frame size is only 430 cc brain (compared with a normal human being who has a brain size of 1400 cc). Archaeologists argue that the skull is derived from the 2 million-12 000 BC or in the Pleistocene era. In addition, at a depth of 10.7 meters, the ancient animal bones were also found including Stegodon (ancient elephants), komodo dragons, turtles, and lizards. Liang Bua cave is a prehistoric relics in Indonesia. This cave is one of many karst caves on the island of Flores, East Nusa Tenggara in Indonesia. The cave is located in the hamlet Rampasasa, Liangbua Village, District Ruteng, Manggarai, East Nusa Tenggara Province. In this cave was found fossils of Homo floresiensis, or Flores Man, which has a height of only about 100 cm and weighs 25 kg.Tengkorak humans, which lived 13,000 years ago, who lived with pygmy elephants and Komodo dragons. In 2001 archaeological excavation has been carried out which is a collaboration between the National Archaeological Research Center with the University of New England, Australia. Liang Bua cave became a place of history draw tourists to visit. To achieve this historical tourist area, at the start of the NTT provincial capital of Kupang, on a plane and takes about a half hour to the town of Ende on Flores Island. Then, proceed to the city by public transport Ruteng a minibus to take about 4 hours.City of Ruteng, continues to Rampasasa, within 13 miles by using public transportation.After arriving in the region Rampasasa, you can Memucan inns and restaurants.
Liang Bua (meaning "cave / hole cool" in Manggarai) is one of many karst caves on the island of Flores, East Nusa Tenggara in Indonesia. The cave is located in the hamlet Rampasasa, Liangbua Village, District Ruteng, Manggarai, East Nusa Tenggara Province. [1] and is the discovery of a human-like creature (hominin) recently named Homo floresiensis in 2001. [1]Geologically, the cave is formed endokars growing on limestone alternating with limestone pasiran. These limestone rocks are thought to originate from the middle Miocene period, or about 15 million years ago. This region in the province of Kars, Kars region, as elsewhere in Indonesia, also have specific characteristics that vary with other Kars region.Liang Bua and others host a regional caves have been explored in archeology since the 1930s. The findings of this period brought to Leiden, Netherlands. Excavation and research carried on by a team led HR van Heekeren in the 1950s, then continued by Th.Verhoeven, a Catholic priest. His team found, among others, the framework is very short (but not dwarf) in the Liang Toge, in addition to the bones in Liang Bua, Liang Momer, and others. [2] framework, this framework is H. sapiens. The next researcher who conducted the study there were AA Sukadana, physical anthropologist from the University of Airlangga, in the 1960's also found human remains, including the lower jaw, at Liang Bua. From the years 1978-1989, Prof.. R. Flag Soejono found among others in the Liang Bua femur. Skeletal remains from the beginning to the last period stored in Leiden, London, Yogyakarta, Jakarta, Surabaya, and Flores. Further research was stopped because there was no funding. New research continues after the existing cooperation between Arkenas Research Center (led Soejono RP) and the University of New England, Australia (led by Mike Morwood). [3]In September 2003 found a unique framework which was later identified as H.floresiensis. Along with early humans were also found stone tools known to have been used by Homo erectus (as found in Sangiran) and bone remains of Stegodon (ancient elephant) dwarf, giant lizards, and rats. Wonogiri. Homo floresiensis (Flores humans) is about 100 centimeters tall weighing 25 pounds or around the waist is also a normal human being living in the cave region of Kars in East Nusa Tenggara. Precisely at Liang Cave is located on Flores Island Boa, located in the hamlet Rampasasa, Liang Bua Village, District Ruteng, Manggarai, East Nusa Tenggara Province (NTT). As presented in Panel Monitor Indonesia in Kars Kars Museum, Cave Liang Endokars Boa is a growing phenomenon in limestone alternating with limestone pasiran. This limestone is estimated to middle Miocene, or about 15 million years ago. This region in the province of Kars, Kars region, as elsewhere in Indonesia, also have specific characteristics that vary with other Kars region. In 2001, co-operation and Development Research Center of Archaeology with the University of New England found the skeleton of modern man is half the waist. Scientists classify this human original modern human beings with anatomical abnormalities of the disease microcephalic. But in its development is believed to be Homo Floresensis who lived 100 thousand to 12 thousand years ago. Flores was the discovery of human fossils makes the Liang Bua Cave is one of the important archaeological sites in the world. Human dwarf that has a body size of children is expected to live with pygmy elephants and giant lizards like the Komodo.These findings make the Liang Bua cave became famous, so many tourists visit, whether domestic or foreign. As soon as the findings of human fossils dwarfs - like the legendary figures in the book Hobbit JRR Tolkien, The Lord of the Rings - in Liang Bua, Flores, East Nusa Tenggara, announced on Thursday (28/10) in a press conference in Sydney, Australia, instantly excited the scientific world. Layman gossip too. Especially when the television networks and news agencies put the world as one of the news of "great", then released by the mass media in different parts of the world, finding ancient human species, later named Homo floresiensis was also being discussed. Knowledge of the life of the thousands of years ago at Liang Bua is not new. The archaeologists from the National Archaeological Research Center (Center Arkenas) since 1976 has been intensive research in the Liang Bua. By the late 1970s, the team headed by Prof. Dr. Raden Panji Soejono it even has to get the findings "spectacular" in the form of a human skull and skeleton of adult human body. Along with it also found ancient human graveyard, complete with the provision that his grave is still relatively intact. Also found a layer of a variety of cultural artifacts believed to be supporting the rest of their existence. Only, when Indonesia was the archaeologists do not yet have adequate tools and the ability to make a conclusion that is quite thorough. It just says that the human race who lived there from at least about 10,000 years ago. In the absence of costs, the study was halted. Subsequent years, until 1989, the research tends to be sporadic. "To do research in the Liang Bua takes considerable cost. With as many as 18 team members, when we had to take Dakota to Flores, after a stopover in Denpasar and Kupang. Not to mention the cost for other needs," said Soejono. In the absence of funding, in 2001, came an offer of cooperation from Australia. Mike Morwood of the University of New England led the team from Australia, while RP Soejono act as team leader of the Center for Arkenas. After conducting a series of excavations, September 2003, the combined team managed to get a horrendous discovery: the hobbit from Liang Bua! "Actually, this research has not fully ended. Kok, suddenly the results have been announced by Australia. Especially when it was announced without any accompanied by a researcher from Indonesia. I do not know where the ethics of research ethics and cooperation during this diagung- glorified in the world of science, "said Soejono. However, what can I say. "It could not be separated because we do not have the funds and expert research and tools are adequate," he added. He admitted that the conditions of scarcity becomes a dilemma for the world's archaeological research in Indonesia. As a result, so there is an offer of cooperation with overseas immediately accepted. In fact, it's not entirely beneficial cooperation, including in the context of research at Liang Bua. There are times when the results of research carried out of the country so most of the research results are in Australia and Indonesia did not get anything. "SEARCH for human remains from Liang Bua dwarf actually started by Father Verhoeven in 1958," said Rokus Due Awe, power technicians at Research Center for Arkenas documentation. He took part in the excavations made since the beginning of the priest. (Reuters, October 30, 2004)it is so fantastic,right??so don't be embarassed with your country because your country have an amazing things which you can't find in the other country.
hi everybody...do you like mount or nature?if you like it,you must read my blog about one mount in ntt named inerie mount,inerie mount located in bajawa,flores island and this mount ever been erupt in 1882 and 1970.From the top of this mount you can see a beautiful view of bajawa island in the west see.view of bajawa with a haze is appear like the old city in europe but from the east from this island you can see the blue water of lawu see which attached with leg of inerie mount.from the south of this mount you can see the big stone which trusted by people in bajawa as a incarnation of jaramasi and his horse.a section of this forest which surround by dense forest just find in the west of this mount.this mount is always invited when summer between june until august,and if you want to visit inerie mount,you can start from kupang city and get a flight to ende(city in flores) and go to bajawa(61 km)from ende..and with rent transport you go to tour village named bena village and this village is a door to visit mount inerie and you can stay in the inn and eat in this village.its so fantastic,so..lets enjoy your journey to the mount of inerie
we know indonesia have many interesting and unique place,and now i will give you same information about one place which still closer for many people.in this place there are wonderful object like komodo,labuan bajo also famous place for driver to see directly many colection of coral reefs and some spot in labuan bajo offer you to do snorkling and see many rare animal.this place have interesting culture like caci dance which people use to greet a tourist and this dance is a heritage from labuan bajo.because of its nature charm this place was recorded in one ads in tv and accompanied by the legendary song "kolam susu".this ads show the nature rich of labuan bajo.labuan bajo always met by many tourist until 100 hundred tourist every week..so,come to labuan bajo and you can get many experience in this place.
hey guyz..do you like beach?or do you want to see the awesome?okey..now i will tell you about one awesome beach in ntt which have by kupang city named lasiana beach.why it so awesome?because it is have a unique topografi,the west place of the beach is hill and this beach is surround by 65 coconut tree and 230 the old ejection tree.many people and tourist come to this beach to have a tour,swimming,surfing,and you can have a sunbathe.this beach also have beautiful white sand,blue see,and waves roll in the see and you can see sunrise and sunset in this beach.in this beach also you can find a small building from grassland named lapo-lapo and you can eat coconut and drink its water,banana roasted,corn roasted and some special food in ntt.like the plan of the government,lasiana beach will be made to be flobamora culture park.it is very beautiful and very rare.so..don't be doubt to come to this beach.
okey..guyz,now we go to flores island in east nusa tenggara.in this place we will find a wonderful lake name kelimutu lake.why kelimutu lake is so wonderful??because this lake have 3 colour of water,and you can find it at the top of nation garden of kelimutu.to reach the kelimutu lake you can start from moni.it is a small place like basecamp for backpacker.in the way of the kelimutu lake,there are so many beautiful and fantastic view .people trust that this lake is the place for people who was died. the west lake named tiwu ata mbupu or lake for soul of the oldest people who was died.the middle lake named tiwu nuwa muri koo fai or lake for soul of the young people who was died.the east lake named tiwu ata polo or lake for people who is very often do evil.this place is also surround by forest which have many rare plant like pinus,edelweiss and the other.it is the best adventure in flores.so,don't forget to come to kelimutu lake.
A person who has a sense of love and affection, then he would be willing to sacrifice anything for the people who the people love, because love is very powerful force that is able to hit solid fences blocking"
Love and affection is a beautiful gift of God given to every creature, thanks to the outpouring of love a person willing to sacrifice to do any benefit to which he loved even though it is very heavy and lots of thistles and thorns.Someone who is really in love with him then he would be willing to leave her cigarette, a person who loved his parents so he would make good use of money entrusted to him, in love with science he will learn in earnest.That's the power of love that we should understand and instilled in us, so can imagine how sweet sacrifice tread life with love.studying with love, spending money from parents with love, and keep the body from the dangers of nicotine smoke out of love.
Love is as critical for your mind and body as oxygen. It's not negotiable. The more connected you are, the healthier you will be both physically and emotionally. The less connected you are, the more you are at risk.
It is also true that the less love you have, the moredepressionyou are likely to experience in your life. Love is probably the bestantidepressantthere is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most depressed people don't love themselves and they do not feel loved by others. They also are very self-focused, making them less attractive to others and depriving them of opportunities to learn the skills of love.
There is a mythology in our culture that love just happens. As a result, the depressed often sit around passively waiting for someone to love them. But love doesn't work that way. To get love and keep love you have to go out and be active and learn a variety of specific skills.
Most of us get our ideas of love from popular culture. We come to believe that love is something that sweeps us off our feet. But the pop-culture ideal of love consists of unrealistic images created for entertainment, which is one reason so many of us are set up to be depressed. It's part of our national vulnerability, like eating junk food, constantly stimulated by images of instant gratification. We think it is love when it's simply distraction and infatuation.
One consequence is that when we hit real love we become upset and disappointed because there are many things that do not fit the cultural ideal. Some of us get demanding and controlling, wanting someone else to do what we think our ideal of romance should be, without realizing our ideal is misplaced.
It is not only possible but necessary to change one's approach to love to ward off depression. Follow these action strategies to get more of what you want out of life—to love and be loved.
Recognize the difference between limerance and love. Limerance is the psychological state of deep infatuation. It feels good but rarely lasts. Limerance is that first stage of mad attraction whereby all thehormonesare flowing and things feel so right. Limerance lasts, on average, six months. It can progress to love. Love mostly starts out as limerance, but limerance doesn't always evolve into love.
Know that love is a learned skill, not something that comes from hormones or emotion particularly. Erich Fromm called it "an act of will." If you don't learn the skills of love you virtually guarantee that you will be depressed, not only because you will not be connected enough but because you will have many failure experiences.
Learn good communication skills. They are a means by which you develop trust and intensify connection. The more you can communicate the less depressed you will be because you will feel known and understood.
There are always core differences between two people, no matter how good or close you are, and if the relationship is going right those differences surface. The issue then is to identify the differences and negotiate them so that they don't distance you or kill the relationship.
You do that byunderstandingwhere the other person is coming from, who that person is, and by being able to represent yourself. When the differences are known you must be able to negotiate and compromise on them until you find a common ground that works for both.
Focus on the other person. Rather than focus on what you are getting and how you are being treated, read your partner's need. What does this person really need for his/her own well-being? This is a very tough skill for people to learn in our narcissistic culture. Of course, you don't lose yourself in the process; you make sure you're also doing enough self-care.
Help someone else. Depression keeps people so focused on themselves they don't get outside themselves enough to be able to learn to love. The more you can focus on others and learn to respond and meet their needs, the better you are going to do in love.
Develop the ability to accommodate simultaneous reality. The loved one's reality is as important as your own, and you need to be as aware of it as of your own. What are they really saying, what are they really needing? Depressed people think the only reality is their own depressed reality.
Actively dispute your internal messages of inadequacy. Sensitivity to rejection is a cardinal feature of depression. As a consequence of lowself-esteem, every relationship blip is interpreted far too personally as evidence of inadequacy. Quick to feel rejected by a partner, you then believe it is the treatment you fundamentally deserve. But the rejection really originates in you, and the feelings of inadequacy are the depression speaking.
Recognize that the internal voice is strong but it's not real. Talk back to it. "I'm not really being rejected, this isn't really evidence of inadequacy. I made a mistake." Or "this isn't about me, this is something I just didn't know how to do and now I'll learn." When you reframe the situation to something more adequate, you can act again in an effective way and you can find and keep the love that you need.
If you are not a lover, then do not view life is life. For without love, all these works will not be counted on the day of reckoning later. Every time that passes without love, will be transformed into an embarrassing face to Him.
Only with a beautiful love, we can withstand the pain of poverty, bitter grief, and grief farewell.No matter how implantation trouble, how hopeless the future, how topsy-balaunya complexity, how great a mistake, love can overcome all. If you can give enough love, you'll be the happiest and most powerful man in the world.
Fairy island is an island which very beautiful in NTT...why??Because it have sea park with many ornamental fish.The island is located in labuanbajo,manggarai barat city,Nusa tenggara timur.It is located in island cluster in labuanbajo.fairy island is covered by bungalow and diving located.So, if you come to that island you don't get hard to search residence.fisherman and the village in that island are prohibited to approach to the fairy island because they often break the coral reefs and throm waste carelessly.So, the island is still clean.in 2005 more than 2.000 tourist come to the fairy island.It's so beautiful and interesting.so don't forget to come to the fairy island.
